A private first call
A free 15-minute phone consultation helps us discuss your concerns and whether coaching fits.
Work with Sara
Feel heard, communicate with more care, handle conflict more constructively, and make clearer relationship decisions.
Marriage and relationship coaching based in Monsey, New York, with virtual sessions available. Sara specializes in Orthodox Jewish marriage and family life and welcomes clients from all backgrounds.
Couples coaching
For recurring arguments, emotional distance, trust, and learning to reconnect.
Learn more →Individual relationship coaching
For boundaries, relationship uncertainty, and changing the responses within your control.
Learn more →Premarital coaching
Explore expectations, communication, family relationships, values, and shidduch decisions.
Learn more →Remarriage & blended families
Work through children, co-parenting, competing loyalties, and family boundaries.
Learn more →A free 15-minute phone consultation helps us discuss your concerns and whether coaching fits.
In your first session, share what is bringing you in, what feels difficult, and what you hope will change.
Learn communication, listening, and repair skills. Personalized exercises may help you put them into practice between sessions.
Sara Freed’s marriage and relationship coaching approach is shaped by both professional training and lived experience. Having navigated divorce herself, Sara understands the pain and uncertainty that can arise when relationships and families do not unfold as expected. She later built a loving blended family that has flourished for nearly two decades. Today, all six of their children are married, and she is a proud grandmother to many beautiful grandchildren.
Sara often says that her work is also grounded in the “school of hard knocks.” She has experienced firsthand what it means to work intentionally on a marriage—and she continues to reap the rewards of that commitment. These experiences inform The Emotional Marriage Method, her practical and compassionate approach to helping couples recognize recurring conflict patterns, improve communication, rebuild emotional safety, and repair their connection with intention. Drawing upon extensive relationship education and over a decade of coaching experience, Sara helps married, remarried, and blended-family couples build stronger, more connected relationships.

“Stuck does not mean finished.”
Sara’s approach is informed by Gottman principles, Imago Dialogue, and CBT. She brings over a decade of coaching experience and is completing her MSW, expected in 2027.
Strengthen friendship, trust, communication, and meaningful repair.
Practice structured listening, empathy, and validation.
Notice the thoughts and interpretations that shape your reactions.
Core couples sessions are 90 minutes, generally held weekly. Core individual coaching sessions are 60 minutes. Introductory and returning-client formats are discussed privately.
Sara offers structured coaching packages and discusses suitable options, fees, and payment arrangements privately before you decide to begin. An introductory session may be an option if you want to experience the work first.
Yes. You can begin with individual relationship coaching when a spouse is not ready to participate.
Sara’s current private offering is coaching and relationship education. It is informed by established approaches and is separate from psychotherapy.
Your next step
A free 15-minute phone call to discuss what is happening, ask questions, and decide whether coaching fits. You can begin on your own.
Book a free consultationQuestions or no suitable time? sara@sarafreed.com · 917-355-8630
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